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Okay guys I am here to seek some advice. So, in June of 2018 I had an ectopic pregnancy. Prior to becoming pregnant I had been off my birth control for one month because they discontinued my Junel. Luckily I caught the pregnancy early enough on where they didn’t have to remove my entire tube, instead they just cut off the damaged piece. Since then, I’ve been on my birth control very consistently for about 8 months but my boyfriend ALWAYS cums in me because he is highly allergic to what seems to be MOST condoms. I am due for my period next week and my nipples hurt exceptionally more than they usually do. I have been very nauseousu, and my lower abdomen is sore as if I just did a major workout and I’m having flashes where my face feels super warm but then it goes away. I have also been extremely constipated as well, but because I have IBS my constipation comes and goes at its own leisure. Last weekend on Valentine’s Day my boyfriend and I had sex and he was really chewing on my nipples really hard hard(per my request) and they were sore the day after and have been sore since(almost a week later) I took a pregnancy test and it was definitely negative. I’m wondering if this nipple pain is from my boyfriend, or me being pregnant.im due for my period next weekend (in 7 days). When I had my ectopic my boobs hurt just like this minus the nausea. But it should also be noted when I had my ectopic I took 4 tests and they were negative before I finally got a positive. I’m just really worried because of the nausea and boob pain and hot flashes that last for seconds at a time. Any advice? I’m petrified

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