Scarleteen

Can I be gay if I like female legs,stomachs and can crush on girls (but very rarely) ,if I don't have a need to sleep with girls nor touch their boobs nor attracted to their boobs nor their butt ?

Sexual orientation, as a framework, is really about people, not body parts. It's also not really about what we do or don't want to do sexually.

It's about what PEOPLE -- whole people -- we feel attracted to and sexually interested in.