sex and 13 year olds

Questions and discussion about your sexual lives, choices, activities, ideas and experiences.
Post Reply Previous topicNext topic
feistelj
not a newbie
Posts: 7
Joined: Fri Jan 04, 2019 10:52 pm
Age: 19
Awesomeness Quotient: I am nice.
Primary language: English
Pronouns: No
Sexual identity: Male
Location: Indianapolis,Indiana

sex and 13 year olds

Unread post by feistelj »

Can a 13 year old have sex?
Top
Sam W
previous staff/volunteer
Posts: 10320
Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:06 am
Age: 33
Awesomeness Quotient: I raise carnivorous plants
Primary language: english
Pronouns: she/her
Sexual identity: queer
Location: Coast

Re: sex and 13 year olds

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi feistelj,

The short answer is yes, someone who is 13 can be, and are, sexually active. The longer answer is that whether or not someone who is 13 is in a place in their lives where they're ready to be sexually active depends on a whole bunch of different factors, and what's the "right" choice for one person at 13 may be the completely wrong choice for someone else at that same age. These two articles do a really good job of breaking some of those factors down: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/relat ... or_romance
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advic ... dy_for_sex

Are you asking about this because you're considering being sexually active yourself?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
Top
feistelj
not a newbie
Posts: 7
Joined: Fri Jan 04, 2019 10:52 pm
Age: 19
Awesomeness Quotient: I am nice.
Primary language: English
Pronouns: No
Sexual identity: Male
Location: Indianapolis,Indiana

Re: sex and 13 year olds

Unread post by feistelj »

Yes I do
Top
Jacob
scarleteen staff/volunteer
Posts: 1189
Joined: Tue Jul 29, 2014 3:33 am
Age: 35
Primary language: English
Pronouns: They
Location: Leeds UK

Re: sex and 13 year olds

Unread post by Jacob »

Hi Feistelj,

Did you read those two pieces Sam posted... did you find what was written there helpful?
"In between two tall mountains there's a place they call lonesome.
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
Top
feistelj
not a newbie
Posts: 7
Joined: Fri Jan 04, 2019 10:52 pm
Age: 19
Awesomeness Quotient: I am nice.
Primary language: English
Pronouns: No
Sexual identity: Male
Location: Indianapolis,Indiana

Re: sex and 13 year olds

Unread post by feistelj »

Not much
Top
Sam W
previous staff/volunteer
Posts: 10320
Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:06 am
Age: 33
Awesomeness Quotient: I raise carnivorous plants
Primary language: english
Pronouns: she/her
Sexual identity: queer
Location: Coast

Re: sex and 13 year olds

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi feistelj,

Okay, is there information you were looking for that wasn't in them?

And, since it sounds like you're considering being sexually active, have you and your partner talked at all about whether you're each ready to handle any risks associated with sex?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
Top
Post Reply Previous topicNext topic
  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Return to “Sex & Sexuality”