Risk

[moonlightbae]

Hey, 6 days earlier when I was on the day 18th of my cycle, I had protected sex w/my bf. We had sex twice, but I am only worried about the first time we did it, cuz we always use condoms+withdrawal and maybe I could say that also FAM? Because I was ovulating about 14-16th day of my cycle, and on 18th I was def getting that white sticky infertile mucus. Anyway, I wanted to ask, how likely is to get pregnant when he withdrew before ejaculating, but I noticed a little slip (like 1-2cm or so) and he was touching my genitals? Could sperm leak through the base of condom and somehow get into my vagina? He didn't stay touching my genitals for long, like a half of minute and after that I cleaned myself up with some tissues. Again, how much of a risk I am?

[Jacob]

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