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ok so last week I was with my boyfriend, things got a little heated and we started to kiss I gave him a blowjob (he didn’t cum) then he started fingering me, this was my first time being fingered and he went fast and hard, it hurt at the start but felt good as he went on. We decided to try anal for the first time and again it hurt at the start but felt good later. I felt ok after it and during that day but days after I started getting abdominal and lower back pains, I started feeling sore around my hips and passing a lot of gas. My thighs were also sore but I walked to school 3 days that week and I usually don’t walk. Is the pain due to being really sexually active for the first time ? It’s been happening for a week now. Am I pregnant? My period is also due in 3 days is that what’s wrong with me? Please help I’m so scared I’ve been googling my symptoms and they’re similar to pregnancy symptoms.

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