another embarrassing topic from me but I am still going to ask.
yesterday at McDonalds I noticed a guy in line and I noticed the outline of his penis, he just had shorts on and nothing under them. I constantly looked but did my best in acting like I wasn't looking
Took a couple photos of him and IT. And last night I looked at the photos and masturbated to them.
I know what I was doing was wrong but I also enjoyed it. Is this something over the top for me or something normal? No way am I asking or telling my gf's about this, lol!
And, my last embarrassing question, if the outline of his penis is maybe 5 inches what would it be when erect?
I am going to go hide in the corner now
normal sexual thoughts or not?
-
- previous staff/volunteer
- Posts: 10320
- Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:06 am
- Age: 33
- Awesomeness Quotient: I raise carnivorous plants
- Primary language: english
- Pronouns: she/her
- Sexual identity: queer
- Location: Coast
Re: normal sexual thoughts or not?
Hi Everglow,
You're certainly not the first person to notice something you liked about a strangers body, or to think about that stranger later on while masturbating. The only thing that isn't okay in this scenario is that you took photos of him without his permission, which is doubly not okay when there's a sexual gratification component. So, figure taking pictures of people like that is a no-go from here on out.
As for how the difference between a flaccid and an erect penis, there's really not a way to predict it. Sometimes flaccid penises get larger when they're erect, other times they stay about the same size.
You're certainly not the first person to notice something you liked about a strangers body, or to think about that stranger later on while masturbating. The only thing that isn't okay in this scenario is that you took photos of him without his permission, which is doubly not okay when there's a sexual gratification component. So, figure taking pictures of people like that is a no-go from here on out.
As for how the difference between a flaccid and an erect penis, there's really not a way to predict it. Sometimes flaccid penises get larger when they're erect, other times they stay about the same size.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
-
- Similar Topics
- Replies
- Views
- Last post
-
-
New post im lesbian but i have thoughts
by aomi » Sat Mar 30, 2024 4:22 am » in Got Questions? Get Answers. - 1 Replies
- 3703 Views
-
Last post by Ellie
Sat Mar 30, 2024 6:40 am
-
-
-
New post Dealing with violence thoughts / fantasies (on me)
by Kittylemon0 » Sat Apr 06, 2024 7:43 pm » in Sex & Sexuality - 10 Replies
- 9785 Views
-
Last post by Sam W
Thu Apr 11, 2024 7:54 am
-
-
-
New post How to Get Comfortable: Nurturing comfort and confidence with sexuality, sexual identity and sexual interactions
by Sam W » Tue Dec 26, 2023 12:41 pm » in Scarleteen Updates - 0 Replies
- 52652 Views
-
Last post by Sam W
Tue Dec 26, 2023 12:41 pm
-
-
-
New post When It's Harder to See It: Signs of Sexual Coercion and Impending Sexual Violence for Folks Struggling with Social Cues
by Sam W » Mon May 27, 2024 11:16 am » in Scarleteen Updates - 0 Replies
- 7266 Views
-
Last post by Sam W
Mon May 27, 2024 11:16 am
-
-
-
New post TW/CW: Topic of sexual abuse, no details. Concerned about possibly of sexual abuse in fictional media
by Asking Queries » Wed May 29, 2024 7:33 pm » in Got Questions? Get Answers. - 4 Replies
- 5329 Views
-
Last post by Asking Queries
Fri May 31, 2024 1:37 pm
-