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i am a 14 yr old girl who was having fun with a boy last week carelessly. i ended up giving him head and he had precum but i licked it away and swallowed it. i also had my hand on the shaft of his penis but i am pretty sure that nothing got on my hands. after that i’m not really sure if we kissed or not (i don’t think so) and he licked me out and fingered me. i then fingered myself later i didn’t wash my hands but i am pretty sure they were dry at least. what are my chances of getting pregnant from this. i know this might sound stupid but i have spent 10+ hours online and i am freaking myself out. i also read that urine can flush the sperm out of precum, and he said that he went to the bathroom before he came over. i know that my last period ended around 11 days before this event. please help!!!

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