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Hello. I'm a bit scared about this. Im a virgin. My boyfriend fingered me for the first time a week ago, and when he ended I had this dark brown discharge, and it lasted like for 3 days. It ended then and now, 1 week later, i'm having a light brownish discharge again. When I put my finger inside me, my vaginal walls feel thight, congestioned and narrow. When I take it out, I see these very light traces of reddish blood mixed with the brown-tinged discharge. My period is not due for 1 more week or so. I'm having mild cramps that come and go, Im gassy and my breasts hurt a little, which has never happened to me, neither this weird spotting. Why is this happening? These seems like early pregnancy symptoms though I know you guys say its impossible. Anyway I'm starting to get worried about that posibility, what's wrong?

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You mentioned some concerns about the discharge you're having. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=9023

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