24 and never orgasmed (I think)

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24 and never orgasmed (I think)

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Hey guys, so I only just started masturbating earlier this year only a few times, I’ve never came or orgasmed during sex that I know of.... I’ve just masturbated and a gush of what smelt like urine happened even though I’d emptied my bladder before hand and I’m wondering what the hell happened I’m 24 and it stresses me out lol. does this happen to anyone else and is it the same as coming? any help would be amazing thanks guys x
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Re: 24 and never orgasmed (I think)

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Hi Nicky,

So, while we can't say for certain what's happening, it sounds like you may be squirting (sometimes referred to as female ejaculation) during masturbation. Does what you're experiencing match what's described in this article? Squirt: On Ejaculation. While squirting can happen along with orgasm, it can also happen without one.

Since you're not sure you've orgasmed before, can you give me a sense of how pleasurable masturbation is for you in general? Is it that you don't feel much at all during it, or more that what you feel kind of stays at one level rather than building up?
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