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Dear Admins,

We had an 'accident' on the 14th day of my cycle. My boyfriend was giving me a massage. We both were fully naked, but didn't intend to have sex. I was lying on my stomach, he was sitting near. As he was massaging my shoulders, he came on me, his penis near my buttocks. I felt his penis was erect, so I took it and tried to keep it away from my genitals. I asked him to get a condom, but he moved and - as I was still holding his penis - he suddenly and unexpectedly ejaculated all over my back. The problem is that a tiny drop of ejaculate flew down very near my vaginal opening. He wiped it away with a piece of paper tissue in a few seconds and I took a shower afterwards. It happened 2 days ago, at night. In the morning, I called two of my doctors (GP and gynecologist). Both advised me to take Plan B pill, so I did it, 13-14 hours after the accident.

My question is: am I at a real risk of pregnancy, or is it very unlikely to happen under these circumstances?

Sincerely,
June

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