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Holiday Support

When you want support through something scary or rough, and help pulling yourself together and getting through, this is the place.
Forum rules
We ask that users looking for general, ongoing emotional support post in this area of the boards, and that you use this space to both ask for, give and receive that support primarily from each other, rather than from our staff and volunteers. As a staff, we simply are often too overextended with all we need to do in running the organization and its services to do that for extended periods of time, and one of our main aims of our community at the boards has always been to facilitate peers to better be there for each other.

Users often report that they have no in-person peers they can talk to or seek support from: we want this to be a space for online peer support and somewhere everyone can get some practice asking for, getting and giving support so that doing it with people in your lives feels more doable.

Please remember that neither staff, volunteers nor your fellow users can provide or replace mental healthcare when that is something you need. Users struggling with issues like anxiety, depression, abuse or physical health issues are strongly encouraged to seek out qualified, in-person help with those issues in addition to peer or staff support.
Mo
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Holiday Support

Unread post by Mo »

Getting into the end-of-year holiday season means, for many of us, more time spent with family. This can be great, but it can also be stressful, if we're spending a lot of time with family members who pry about relationships, criticize our bodies or choices, or say sexist, racist, homophobic, etc. things in the middle of what should be cheerful gatherings.

This is a thread for anyone to vent, if needed, and offer support through stressful holiday times. If you can't yell at your relatives at the dinner table, you can come in here to rant if need be. :)
Sam W
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Re: Holiday Support

Unread post by Sam W »

Boosting this again, as folks might need it in the coming days.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
Sam W
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Posts: 10320
Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:06 am
Age: 33
Awesomeness Quotient: I raise carnivorous plants
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Sexual identity: queer
Location: Coast

Re: Holiday Support

Unread post by Sam W »

The holidays are rapidly approaching for many of us, and the political landscape may make them extra stressful. So I'm bringing this thread back, as well as adding these two links that offer advice for getting through family gatherings.

https://captainawkward.com/2016/11/12/9 ... ry-advice/
http://www.latimes.com/home/garden/la-h ... story.html
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
Sam W
previous staff/volunteer
Posts: 10320
Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:06 am
Age: 33
Awesomeness Quotient: I raise carnivorous plants
Primary language: english
Pronouns: she/her
Sexual identity: queer
Location: Coast

Re: Holiday Support

Unread post by Sam W »

Tis the season to boost this thread again.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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