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[snowwhitex]

Could I be pregnant if we used condoms and withdrawal but there was precum on his stomach and I don't know if it didn't leak to his genitals? Could that cause pregnancy?

[Heather]

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[Sam W]

Thank you for informing us which account to deactivate.

As for your question

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