Scarleteen

Hi! So my boyfriend and I were having sex for like a good 30 minutes and it was great but when he took the condom off there was white stuff on his penis. But he didn’t ejaculate because I know usually guys know when they do and he didnt because he always knows when he’s About to. The condom we used has lube on the outside and is it possible for there to be some on the inside?

Hi Itsangie,

We can't say for certain what it was, but the likeliest answer is that it was pre-ejaculate.

From your previous conversations with us, it looks like a lot of the anxiety you're having around sex and birth control is tied to how your parents feel about your boyfriend. Have you had a chance to talk to them yet?

I’ve talked to them many times but they always end up saying the same thing. Even though I ask things like why don’t you give him a chance and that kind of stuff.

I'm really sorry to hear that.

So, it sounds like for now, despite your best efforts, your parents just aren't going to be supportive of this. Since it seems like that's just going to be a given for the near future, how do you want to proceed with this relationship?