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hello can you help me. had 2 acts of frottage last september 5 (my last menstruation that time was August 23, 2019), first one, he come but he didn't release it on mine, he wiped it as well afterwards. we rest I think for more than 5 mins then he wiped it again then we do again the frottage. Precum is probably present at that moment. took a pregnancy test 14 days after that intimacy and its negative. took another one last September 19, and a very light (almost not visible) positive - consulted with some registered nurse and they say its still consider as negative. Got bleeding last September 25, 2019. Yet I am paranoid still if its really my menstruation or a decidual bleeding or a subchrionic . please helppp!

Important notes:
im not using any contraceptives. i think my recent bleeding consumed almost 7 days. the first day is normal, second and third is quite heavy, the fourth fifth and sixth day are more of spotting and the seventh is more likely dark brown in color.. swelling happened right after the frottage act. got unusual smell on my pee for a week. yet so far, everything's normal now.
As of today, my nipples are swelling. Expecting my next period this October 25.

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