Unable to ejucalte at 16

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Unable to ejucalte at 16

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I'm 16 and I have never ejucalted. I have pubic hair since I was 12 but not much my voice hasnt broke. My foreskin dosent roll back I wonder if that has anything to do with it. It's really frustrating and I feel like I cant get a girlfriend as I have fears she would find out and tell people.
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Re: Unable to ejucalte at 16

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Welcome to the boards. :)

Someone else just asked us this yesterday right around your same age. Like I told them, this isn't unusual. It's not uncommon for ejaculation to happen a little later in puberty than many people expect.

It's also always okay not to ejaculate with any given kind of sex no matter your age. People of all ages are sexual with partners without ejaculating all the time: it's not required! That said, it also usually isn't the best idea for us to be sexual with people who don't trust, including that we aren't very sure will respect our privacy. Our sexual partners shouldn't be talking to others about our sex lives together without our permission, you know?
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