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Hi all. I'm sorry for being a bother but I would like to ask a question. But first let me explain what going on.

So on January 26 me and my bf had a sexual activity. We grind each other and it was unprotected, no penetration and no ejaculation. After we done doing it I gave him oral sex and that's when he ejaculated. I remember clear that I didn't touch any of my private part at that time and then went to clean my mouth and hands. I forgot to clean my V after that and we went out together. 10 hours later I clean my V. 3 days later I got my period, and it was my normal 4 days period (1 light, 2 heavy, 1 light). Now it has been 18 days since my period and 2 days ago my app said it was my ovulation day. And at that time I was shocked to find my panty has stains of blood. When I wiped my V there was blood mixed with my discharges. It wasn't much but it mixed up with the discharge. It keeps going until this noon, it seems to be lessen. I afraid that this is what they called implantation bleeding. I had symptoms before like breast and back pain.

About 5 days ago, I got my self appendectomy surgery and now my abdominal is kind of hurt and I'm pretty gassy. Now Idk if my bleeding was because of this surgery but it's making me anxious.

Is this pregnancy??

Now Idk what's happening to me. Tbh I was pretty stressed out for these couple of weeks because I don't wanted to get pregnant. Please help I need some assurance.

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