Scarleteen

Hi, I was recently searching blogs in my area on tumblr and when I searched a hash tag of the gym my boyfriend and I go to, I came across a blog post that belongs to my boyfriend. In the post he was saying he is proud of how far his body has come and how much our gym has helped him. I am not sure how to feel about him posting pictures of his body online but I also don't want to be controlling. Is it wrong to want him to take the picture down? I guess part of the reason I don't like it is because other girls from our gym liked the post.
Here is the picture for reference, caution it is nsfw:

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Sarah,

I removed the link from your post because this forum is not the place for sharing naked images of yourself or anyone else. Check out our privacy policy for a bit of a refresher.

Ultimately, if your boyfriend is over 18 then it is his decision what he wants to do with images of his body. Of course, you can tell him your feelings about it, and decide together what boundaries you both want to have in your relationship, but it's important that you agree on them together because they're what you are both happy with - not because he did something bad or shameful. If you are feeling threatened by other girls from the gym, that isn't the kind of thing that will be fixed by controlling what he shares.