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by Andy
Wed Jun 22, 2022 9:42 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Accepting my sexuality
Replies: 247
Views: 3086622

Re: Accepting my sexuality

My friend always says that the easiest way to find a good person is to ask them whether they like guniea pigs,  not that I'd need this verification with you:D Just wanted to let you know I finally found two books from your media recommendations list in a local bookshop. I'll buy them as soon as I ha...
by Andy
Mon Jun 20, 2022 3:53 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: My sister told my mom that I am a lesbian. Please help!
Replies: 21
Views: 12929

Re: My sister told my mom that I am a lesbian. Please help!

Hi! I'm so sorry you're both in such hard, unfair and painful situations, hope things get better as soon as possible for you! I hope it's okay if I add my idea on hiding a journal, keeping mine in bed was actually how it was discovered, but I wasn't so clever and had it only in my pillow and my pare...
by Andy
Mon Jun 20, 2022 3:21 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Accepting my sexuality
Replies: 247
Views: 3086622

Re: Accepting my sexuality

Hi, thank you so much (not only) for what you said in the last paragraph, you're probably right, but it's so hard not to feel ungrateful or inadequate when most of people around me are what their parents want them to be and happy at the same time, they have partners, will have grandchildren, they kn...
by Andy
Fri Jun 17, 2022 6:01 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Accepting my sexuality
Replies: 247
Views: 3086622

Re: Accepting my sexuality

Thank you for those recommendations, I'm looking forward to the new list! Unfortunately I haven't found any of those books in bookshops here, the only one that was published can be bought only on Internet. Since I don't see any other way I could access any other media, do you know about some website...
by Andy
Wed Jun 15, 2022 12:40 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Accepting my sexuality
Replies: 247
Views: 3086622

Re: Accepting my sexuality

Hi and thank you for taking the time to reply! I missed talking to all of you here, it such a warm and reassuring feeling knowing there is someone out there willing to spend their time and energy on me even when I can't give anything in return... I've become much more careful the past few months so ...
by Andy
Wed Jun 15, 2022 3:22 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Accepting my sexuality
Replies: 247
Views: 3086622

Re: Accepting my sexuality

Hi, Sorry, I now see myself I was too vague and not clear. As for the situation with my parents it's gotten better. When I couldn't take it anymore I wrote my mum a letter, mostly full of lies, where I asked for forgiveness and talked about how it's not what it seems, that I'm over it and it was jus...
by Andy
Tue Jun 14, 2022 12:52 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Accepting my sexuality
Replies: 247
Views: 3086622

Accepting my sexuality

Hi, (I promise, I will try to be careful with what I write here so I won't be afraid someone I know might read it and have to ask you to delete my posts again I know I probably shouldn't post here under these circumstances, but the chat times don't work for me, I crave any kind of communication with...
by Andy
Tue Feb 15, 2022 2:30 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How do you Practice Setting Boundaries?
Replies: 6
Views: 4881

Re: How do you Practice Setting Boundaries?

You have my admiration, turning down something so cute as those animals takes a lot! Well, I'm definitely not someone competent to talk about setting boundaries, I don't remember any successful attempt to set some in the past few months, but on the other hand, there weren't many attempts to begin wi...