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by naurmi008
Fri Aug 18, 2023 10:57 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

hi! i confronted my guy friend about what happened, and he just denied it. "yeah but u didn't say no? u could've done smth ab it but u didn't lol" is what he said, which is like anrkahkdja omg this is so frustrating and upsetting. i can't believe that i have to see him again soon like ????...
by naurmi008
Fri Aug 18, 2023 8:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

hi, thank you for your response! would it be okay if i answered these questions (and ask for some help dissecting some questions i have) through the live chat feature?
by naurmi008
Fri Aug 18, 2023 3:44 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

hi Latha, thank you so much for the reassurance. is there any specific threads/articles/information on scarleteen (that applies to my situation) that i can screenshot and read when i feel anxious again? and yes, the anti-sex propaganda style of education at my school isn't helping at all. i think it...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 11:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

hi, would EC be necessary for this scenario? i've been conflicted on whether or not to tell my mom because if i do need EC, i can only get it by asking her to buy it (i don't know any pharmacy here that sells EC, i'm pretty sure you need a doctor's prescription to get one..) i don't really want to t...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 4:15 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

i think i was hoping to make my significant other feel good. i guess it also made me feel "good" but not really genuinely feel good, more like a momentary thing ykwim? i think about the risks but i always say to myself "i'm gonna be safe and make sure nothing bad will come out of this...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 10:21 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

i don't think facing my parents' disappointment is worth it right now, i'm doing okay i think with my boyfriend's support. i will tell them if things get out of hand and i need an adult's help. i don't want to burden them any further.. i feel like a really bad daughter i think the only risks i take ...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 10:07 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

my parents (especially my mom) are the adults i trust most. my mom has always been supportive of me, but she's a tough love kinda mom. i wanted to talk to her about this because i thought i needed EC (this is always my thought process whenever i'm in the midst of a pregnancy scare. i always wanna ta...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 9:44 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

hi! i feel so much better after talking to him. he comforted me and made me feel a lot better. he looked through scarleteen himself and sent me this https://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?t=12498#p65321 and the "you cannot become pregnant with pants on" and "dry humping freakout&...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 7:59 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

okay, i think i'll do that and leave an update. thank you for your support!
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 7:34 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

hi, thank you for putting my worries abt pregnancy risks to a rest i feel the need to tell my boyfriend because i feel guilty..it feels like i consented to what happened and i just cheated on my boyfriend. did i cheat on him? i'm so confused i think if i talked to him then he would support me. whene...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 7:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

Re: i feel so stupid

hi, i've kind of calmed down can i get a slap across the face telling me that iwon't get pregnant from everything he did tome? iswhat he did manual sex and dry humping? i feel like i should be more worried about the fact that he violated me but honestly i think i've gotten more used to that. i'm so ...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 17, 2023 1:07 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i feel so stupid
Replies: 34
Views: 12902

i feel so stupid

i went to a party last night. i was having a lot of fun at first, and then my close guy friend came up to me and gave me a drink, and i stupidly accepted it (i know i'm not supposed to accept drinks from people but i rlly trusted this guy). and then i started feeling really lightheaded and all wobbl...
by naurmi008
Mon Aug 07, 2023 4:39 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: worried?
Replies: 39
Views: 16849

Re: worried?

Hi! sorry sorry, i'll refrain from asking those type of questions.
the only type of sexual activity i'm engaging in is sexting/cyber sex, so i know i don't have to worry about pregnancy risks there
by naurmi008
Mon Aug 07, 2023 9:23 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: worried?
Replies: 39
Views: 16849

Re: worried?

Hi! so for an update, i talked it out with my boyfriend, and everything went great! he hasn't been initiating anything sexual, and always asks "is this ok?" "should i stop?" and overall respecting my boundaries :) anyways, my period's supposed to come up this week, and i've been ...
by naurmi008
Mon Aug 07, 2023 7:48 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is this substance??
Replies: 7
Views: 1938

Re: what is this substance??

Hi! thank you for your response! no, i can't buy lube right now :/ (i don't know if they sell it to minors here + i don't want to get caught buying it). i noticed that this only happened when i masturbate with an object, maybe i should stick to using my fingers
by naurmi008
Sun Aug 06, 2023 4:19 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is this substance??
Replies: 7
Views: 1938

Re: what is this substance??

Hi! that was last night, when I woke up this morning and stuck a finger up there, i didn't notice any of that brownish substance anymore. when i stuck a finger up there, it felt a bit sore, but only slightly and that feeling is still here (but it's only a very slight and minor pain). when i wipe aft...
by naurmi008
Sun Aug 06, 2023 9:48 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is this substance??
Replies: 7
Views: 1938

Re: what is this substance??

nope! my last period started on july 14th, and my next is due this week (around august 11 or 12)
by naurmi008
Sun Aug 06, 2023 9:22 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: what is this substance??
Replies: 7
Views: 1938

what is this substance??

Hi! so i was masturbating with an object (i use a condom over it!! it's not a sharp object either) and i do it for a while, suddenly this dark red/brown substance appears? i don't know how to describe it. the object i'm using gets covered in this substance and it's like the texture of creamy dischar...
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 03, 2023 7:58 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: worried?
Replies: 39
Views: 16849

Re: worried?

thank you sm for the advice! i think i'll talk to him either tonight or tomorrow. thank you !!
by naurmi008
Thu Aug 03, 2023 3:31 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: worried?
Replies: 39
Views: 16849

Re: worried?

Hi! i really like some of the examples of intimacy (especially the sharing your feelings/interests part). i definitely think i'm going to apply this in my relationship. i've thought about talking to him about my sexual boundaries, but i'm not sure how to bring it up and when to do it. should i just ...
by naurmi008
Wed Aug 02, 2023 7:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: PMS
Replies: 3
Views: 1073

Re: PMS

Hi! i think after all the advice and resources given to me on that thread i can navigate my future choices based on the resources and my feelings. should i just stick to that thread for now and talk about my relationship issues for now? can i post questions on that thread that are unrelated to my re...
by naurmi008
Wed Aug 02, 2023 6:46 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: PMS
Replies: 3
Views: 1073

PMS

is it normal for pms symptoms to change? i've experienced sore breasts as a pms symptom for the past 2 months, but it's far less intense now. aaand i've been feeling super moody this week, i think this might be a pms symptom but maybe it's from other factors (specifically my super hectic life right ...
by naurmi008
Tue Aug 01, 2023 9:24 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: worried?
Replies: 39
Views: 16849

Re: worried?

Maybe it stems from my past negative sexual encounters I had? I think that's the root cause of this. I'm afraid that if I'm not sexual with him, maybe he (or even me, or both of us) will lose interest -- though he keeps reassuring me that he won't. and sexual activities are a form of intimacy that i...
by naurmi008
Tue Aug 01, 2023 8:22 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: worried?
Replies: 39
Views: 16849

Re: worried?

Maybe? I don't know if I'm ready right now, it feels so awkward to bring it up? I don't know how to explain how I feel. I feel like i HAVE to give him sexual pleasure and me asking for it to stop is somethinf horrible (he has never pressured me into anything sexual btw!). And I have asked him to sto...
by naurmi008
Tue Aug 01, 2023 8:13 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: worried?
Replies: 39
Views: 16849

Re: worried?

I guess I'm scared of him leaving bc of our possible incompatibility. I've grown really attached to him and I do love and care about him. He's been my support system for so long that I can't really imagine breaking up with him, ykwim?