i went to a party last night. i was having a lot of fun at first, and then my close guy friend came up to me and gave me a drink, and i stupidly accepted it (i know i'm not supposed to accept drinks from people but i rlly trusted this guy). and then i started feeling really lightheaded and all wobbl...

Hi! sorry sorry, i'll refrain from asking those type of questions.
the only type of sexual activity i'm engaging in is sexting/cyber sex, so i know i don't have to worry about pregnancy risks there

Hi! so for an update, i talked it out with my boyfriend, and everything went great! he hasn't been initiating anything sexual, and always asks "is this ok?" "should i stop?" and overall respecting my boundaries :) anyways, my period's supposed to come up this week, and i've been ...

Hi! thank you for your response! no, i can't buy lube right now :/ (i don't know if they sell it to minors here + i don't want to get caught buying it). i noticed that this only happened when i masturbate with an object, maybe i should stick to using my fingers

Hi! that was last night, when I woke up this morning and stuck a finger up there, i didn't notice any of that brownish substance anymore. when i stuck a finger up there, it felt a bit sore, but only slightly and that feeling is still here (but it's only a very slight and minor pain). when i wipe aft...

nope! my last period started on july 14th, and my next is due this week (around august 11 or 12)

Hi! so i was masturbating with an object (i use a condom over it!! it's not a sharp object either) and i do it for a while, suddenly this dark red/brown substance appears? i don't know how to describe it. the object i'm using gets covered in this substance and it's like the texture of creamy dischar...

thank you sm for the advice! i think i'll talk to him either tonight or tomorrow. thank you !!

Hi! i really like some of the examples of intimacy (especially the sharing your feelings/interests part). i definitely think i'm going to apply this in my relationship. i've thought about talking to him about my sexual boundaries, but i'm not sure how to bring it up and when to do it. should i just ...

Hi! i think after all the advice and resources given to me on that thread i can navigate my future choices based on the resources and my feelings. should i just stick to that thread for now and talk about my relationship issues for now? can i post questions on that thread that are unrelated to my re...

is it normal for pms symptoms to change? i've experienced sore breasts as a pms symptom for the past 2 months, but it's far less intense now. aaand i've been feeling super moody this week, i think this might be a pms symptom but maybe it's from other factors (specifically my super hectic life right ...

Maybe it stems from my past negative sexual encounters I had? I think that's the root cause of this. I'm afraid that if I'm not sexual with him, maybe he (or even me, or both of us) will lose interest -- though he keeps reassuring me that he won't. and sexual activities are a form of intimacy that i...

Maybe? I don't know if I'm ready right now, it feels so awkward to bring it up? I don't know how to explain how I feel. I feel like i HAVE to give him sexual pleasure and me asking for it to stop is somethinf horrible (he has never pressured me into anything sexual btw!). And I have asked him to sto...

I guess I'm scared of him leaving bc of our possible incompatibility. I've grown really attached to him and I do love and care about him. He's been my support system for so long that I can't really imagine breaking up with him, ykwim?

Hi! sorry for the inconvenience, sure we can go back to that topic!

Hi! thank you for this! yes, i do have my family who has been a great source of support and comfort for me. they're helping me sort the legal issues out but sometimes they keep saying "why did you have to send pictures in the first place" which makes me feel a bit down again (i know it was...

did he have power over me because of his position? he kept telling me "what power do i have over you? what can i do to you?" it made me feel really guilty. i remember him lying to my bf and saying "i did it because i didn't know you guys were dating" which made me think, is the o...

Hi! sorry to be so active here,, i just needed to talk about this. So a few months ago, my teacher started talking to me about his personal problems (i.e. his problems with his gf and how she doesn't want to have sex w him) and it somehow escalated into him encouraging me to flirt with him. we ended...

if we were 100% incompatible, i don't think i'd be worried. But right now i really do think he's great for me! He asks for consent and respects my boundaries, it's just me that can't control myself. And he's great in other aspects too, he's been there for me through so much that I'd be sad to let hi...

Yes I am open to that! But a part of me is scared that what if I delve too deep into it and turns out we aren't compatible and we break up? I'm scared of that possibility

I think on the surface level, I engage in sexual activities with my partner because it makes him feel good which makes me happy. Like knowing that I'm giving him pleasure makes me feel good about myself. But if I think deeper into it, maybe it's because all my experiences with my boyfriends so far j...

Hi, yes I would like to talk about why I think I'm engaging in sexual activities right now that causes me more anxiety than pleasure. Can I open up a new topic for that?

So to clarify, that means that traces of ejaculate on someone's finger wouldn't pose a pregnancy risk but that it would literally have to be lots of fresh ejaculate on their finger that's stuck up there immediately?

Hi! Thank you for your response! I meant that would the risk of pregnancy only be possible if there was a bunch of fresh, wet sperm on a finger that was inserted in to a vagina? i've been so worried that there would be a risk of pregnancy from some residue/trace of ejaculate on my partner's fingers ...

Does that mean there would have to be a sufficient amount of fresh, wet sperm that's instantly put up there to pose a risk of pregnancy? Thank you in advance!