Awesome! Thank you and thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.

Is ther a section about telling your partner that your pregnant? Because I dont even know where to begin.. It's just really scary. I've always wanted to be a mom, but I also that I would be married, when it happened.

Update: just got back from Florida and seeing the pilot. We talked on the phone a week before going down. It was so nice and funny. I told him I was staying in fort Meyers and he said why don't you just stay at my hotel. So after some thought, I agreed and stayed with him. We had a lot of fun and di...

I know... I just don't want him to think I'm a slut or something with sending a text like that. But I think he knows I'm not. It's just me beIng my normal overthinking self. But does that text sound sluty? "What? No more dirty/flirty texts? Lol! "

And I totally agree. Might as well have fun until I meet the right guy. So here's a question about communicating when your friends with benefits. Since he's my friend, guess I just treat a text to him like a text to any friend. Right? But knowing with him it could always end up more sexual. Which I ...

It's fine... And I totally see your concern. It does feel a lot better that I put my feelings on the table and he was so sweet with his explanation why we can't be together. I knew this would be a possibility when I started dating him. But, always hoped that it would work out. But I've moved on and ...

I wanted to be respectful of his training. I know the hard process of pilot sim training. Once he initiated communication a couple of times I did feel comfortable texting him more. At the time we were dating and I was still seeing other people. I think being honest about anything sexual or relations...

We were both very enthusiastic when we first started dating. He was so sweet and would text dorky things all the time. We always had a lot of fun and he always texted to make sure I go home safe and said that he would call me the next day. Then 6 weeks into dating he got sent to training and he said...

Thank you for your advise. :-) I'm horrible at vocalizing my feelings about anything and I don't understand why? I've always been an over thinker when it comes to work and personal life. My friend keeps reminding me that it's actually not this difficult, your making it more difficult on yourself. Ma...

Yes, I know longer have feelings for him. I'm totally fine with being friends and friends with benefits. I reflected a lot about the situation and realized that we can't be in a relationship with each other, but we can be friends and friends sounds great to me.

I'm the one that suggested the casual sex. I had no plans on ever telling him, that I still had feelings for him. Because, I had decided after reflection that he's not in the position to give me what I'm looking for in relationship. But, I thought why not be friends and if he wanted to be friends wi...

In June 2014, I started dating a guy and in October 2014 we ended it because I lived in MN and his new state of residence is unknown because he's a pilot. We started talking again and being flirty with each other. But, I wasn't sure if he had feelings for me again or something else. So, one night we...

I want him back. I don't care that he's gone a lot. He's a great guy and during our time apart. I realized that my feelings never went away and that I still love him. So to answer the question. I want him back its not a sexual thing and it never was for us. I was with him because we cared about each...

Also I texted him last night. Merry Christmas Ben! I hope you were able to spend time with your family this holiday. He replied, " Merry Christmas Mariann! " then we texted for a while. My friend gave me some good advice. Just put the Sunday 12/21 that he never responded in the past.

I hope this is the right place, I'm not sure..:) I dated this guy (pilot) from June 2014 to October 2014. We had a lot of fun together on our dates and had planned more. When he found out he was leaving for training for 3-4 weeks. We said our goodbyes and countined to chat/ flirt throughout that 3-4...

I dated this guy (pilot) from June 2014 to October 2014. We had a lot of fun together on our dates and had planned more. When he found out he was leaving for training for 3-4 weeks. We said our goodbyes and countined to chat/ flirt throughout that 3-4 week period. Then he finished training and start...

Did I ruin my chances with him? Is it ok with our history to call in a few days if I don't get a response from him? I don't want him to think I'm some crazy girl he slept with that won't go away. I want a relationship with him, but it's hard to figure out.

But is it to late to talk over the phone with him? I sent the text 3 hours ago and he never responded.

I've been dating a guy for 3 months. We have a great chemistry together and really like each other. In August he left for MN for pilot training in Las Vegas and is now being bounced around the country. We hooked up in early September and he informed me that he wasn't seeing anyone else. Then he went...

Hi! I'm just trying to figure out this whole dating/relationship thing. Quick background I'm 28 years old with VERY little dating experience. I live in St Paul, MN and I'm a nanny for a wonderful family. I've been seeing someone for the past 3 months, but we are not exclusive and neither of us are s...

Thanks for the advice Jacob :-) Heather- Its hard communicating with him. Since he's always on the go. Right now he's based in Las Vegas and living in a hotel. I never know when a good time is to call or text. Another part of the equation is I've never taken a relationship this far. I've dated here ...

In June I started seeing this great guy, he's 31 and I'm 28. He's a pilot for a smaller airline and is being bounced around since completing training in August. We chat and text throughout the weeks and I'm typically the dominant initiator, between the two of us. Here's where I'm so confused. We wai...