Have you had a chance to check out the link that Sam provided? It has some suggestions for alleviating cramps that does not include medication. As far as sex on a period, it comes down to personal preference and what you are comfortable with. There seems to be a lot of stigma around having sex while...

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...

Hi Smoore, Since you are backing up with a condom, I wanted to share this article that gives you an idea of the level you can expect using your two methods of birth control. http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual_health/the_buddy_system_effectiveness_rates_for_backing_up_your_birth_control_with_a_

Hi TrueJustice, There is no need to apologize.I don't think you are exaggerating in any way. I looked over your other threads and I would not be surprised if the same patterns they have exhibited in other aspects of your life applied to food as well. With abuse, it can appear subtle or like it is no...

Audryll, I'm so sorry that you have been going through all this. You deserve to feel and be safe in your home. From what you have described here and in other post, your home environment is not safe and the situation is escalating. And based off the things that you have shared I am concerned for your...

Similar to doglover I use affirmations, but I write them down. This isn't something I would typical talk to someone about but still feel the need to get it out. Writing allows me to do that. First I give myself a bit of time to write out what has me feeling crappy. Then I write my affirmations as we...

Expectations and stereotypes about a person's identity really annoy me! All my life I have dealt with people's idea of who I should be based off my race, gender, appearance, etc. and it really irks!!! It doesn't make much sense to me. This is a vent thread. What are some expectations that others hav...

I'm really feeling my arms and shoulders lately. I started working out again recently, this go round using weights, and oh man... I feel like I'm Angela Bassett.

Hey, Just want to add that you are not "behind" when it comes to sexual, romantic, and even social relationships. While it can certainly feel like everyone else is (already) having sex and/or a relationship, the truth is there are plenty of people who aren't at every age (even close to 30)...

Hi Arwen, Thank you for your kind words and glad that our resources have been helpful for you :) Some other things you could try is regular exfoliation during showers/baths with a scrub or loofah. Are you removing hair from this area? If you are you could switch up your method and see if that makes ...

Hey Princess LuLu, Checking out the counseling center sounds like a great idea. In addition to your anxiety, your concerns about the relationship with your father is also something that you could bring up. I agree with Sam that based off what you have said this sounds like an ongoing issue that you ...

For me it's my stretch marks! I've never really had a problem with them, but I know they are much hated in society. I think part of that is knowing that they aren't going anywhere and there isn't anything that I could have done to prevent them. Bodies do what they are going to do and, in this instan...

Yep! You can start a new thread.

Hi babi_izzi, Hmmm, this seems tough. I can't tell you if his actions and friendship are genuine but what he has made clear to you is that he is not interested in a romantic relationship. Correct me if I am wrong, but it sounds like some of his behaviors are confusing to you or feel like mixed messa...

Hi Doglover,

It is possible this is related to PMS as nausea is a common symptom. We can't know for sure, so if you continue to experience discomfort or develop new symptoms that concern you then it is best to check in with your doctor as Mo suggested!

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Hey, In general, what is safe on the skin of other parts of your body will also be safe for the penis since the skin is external. That includes baby oil as well as vaseline. This is not the case for the anus and vagina (which are internal) and might be why you where seeing conflicting info! If you w...

Hi Celsius Fate, Your sister can not replace proper medical care. As Sam said, in order to determine what it is and if any treatment is necessary you would need a health care provider to examine it. It is best to locate a clinic. Would you like help doing this? If so can you let me know if the locat...

Hi Dandelion, I hate to hear that you are feeling like this. No person should feel unsafe in anyway. You do not deserve to feel this way. Can I check in and make sure you aren't currently at risk for any physical harm. Your safety is of utmost importance to us and most certainly a priority! Do you t...

Hi Dandelion, I'm so sorry you have had such a difficult time getting help, especially that your parents have created a barrier for you. I know you aren't feeling comfortable with the school psychologist but it still might be a good option. If you get signed up, you don't have to commit to seeing th...

Hey Elise, I'm sorry to hear that you are hurt. I know it can be difficult when a relationship is not going the way you expected, especially when you are doubting the way the person feels about you and the relationship. I have to agree with Sam that the relationship may no longer be compatible. It s...

Most pregnancy test will give an accurate result about 14 days after any risk. So as long as you follow the instructions that came along with the test you can trust the results. You can find more info about test here: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pregnancy_parenting/peeing_on_a_stick_all_about_...

Hi FoxTrail, Welcome to the boards! Meeting people is something I struggle with as well but something that I have challenged myself to try. So hopefully I can be of some help, as I am certainly no expert. I think it is important to let go of the idea that there is a certain way you should approach a...

Hi Indigo, Taking your pill on an empty stomach will not impact the effectiveness. In general, it's best to check out the pamphlet that comes with your birth control or check in with the prescribing doctor when you have any questions. Looking at your other post it seems like you're worried about the...

Hi Volleygirl, I certainly understand being concerned about someone that you care about! But I think you have it right when you say you don't have the final say. I think it is important that you remember just because you waited and that was the right decision for you, does not mean that is the best ...