Thank you for all your help of you, Sam,Heather, and Jacob I really appreciate it :D. Thank you for all the helpful reading material I will try to read them all today or tomorrow. I don't think it's making the pain any worse, I don't I any more attached to her or like this built may feeling for her(...

I'm not sure if this will be a problem but how can I make sure I don't get jealous when she dates new people, I'm trying to look at as she is just trying to be happy and she deserves happiness and that is working well and I'm hoping she does find someone new to love. But I don't know how I would fee...

Ok thank you

yes it all makes sense, I am doing my best to give her space and not talking to her much( maybe once per day over text) and sometimes in person( um 6 interactions when we are at work together) and I kinda just try to treat her as friend usual that means just making her laugh, I still feel like I hav...

The articles are really helpful and comforting I haven't read them all ( I read, first but not last love, the how to build healthy relationships, and I am in the middle of the one about conflict resolution) all but I will probably tomorrow but from the titles I can assume they won't answer a few mor...

Ok thank you for the articles I'll be sure to read them

Yes, I am still going to therapy, I will bring this up with them. I'll try to set aside some time with friends but it is hard because they don't respond consistently. I would like to know the answers to both of the last questions, how do I know if I'm ready and how does a potential partner know if I...

im not motavated to do much anymore

how does a person know if you are ready to date?

hmm I can't do that for a few weeks because of work and school

It's hard to remember specifically

I don't think I needed it that just what we both decided about o few days of kissing a lot and then a week later we talked about it and what it meant

umm being home alone makes me pretty sad right now, I feel pretty good when I'm working out or hanging out with friends but I haven't had much motivation to do that

when do you decide to become exclusive?

Ya, I understand so how can I improve?

No this was my first relationship so I have never had any previous experience with a cheating partner. I don't know if things moved too fast or not, I know from the first day we agreed to be exclusive and I feel like that was an honest decision and was not rushed ita just how we both felted. I don't...

They can cheat. The pressure or advantage of evolutionarily to cheat. Um, they could lie about a lot more important this like how they're feeling about the relationship.

this is only an issue with romantic partners

But I still don't know how to deal with the last issue of the mistrust and possible trust issue that stemmed from my last relationship

yes it does

I feel like is a bit of all of them

I think I need to work on my own self-esteem and self- confidence how do that?

I felt insecure early on and this slowly went away

I think I trusted her more in the last few months of our relationship but now that it ended abruptly I don't think I can trust others a well

Trusting her responses( correction)