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- Tue Sep 04, 2018 1:05 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Being single
- Replies: 45
- Views: 12652
Re: Being single
Thanks for the article, it was really helpful. What I am missing the most is the feeling of being loved and having a sexual partner actually... So both physical and emotional... I am actually cool with the missing of the physical activities since we were already in a long distance relationship and c...
- Tue Sep 04, 2018 1:12 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Being single
- Replies: 45
- Views: 12652
Re: Being single
Thank you for the article! I've read it and it really eased my mind. I really don't know why I can't cope with being single. For the past -almost- 5 years, I always had a boyfriend (3 in total), and they were all long term relationships. Considering the fact that I am only 20, almost all of my high ...
- Mon Sep 03, 2018 3:20 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Being single
- Replies: 45
- Views: 12652
Being single
Hello, It's been one and a half month since me and my boyfriend decided to end our relationship. It was a mutual decision, we had a long distance relationship and it was actually working for me but my boyfriend failed to complete his first year in college since he was always wanting to Skype with me...
- Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:11 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I feel like i’m not enough
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5429
Re: I feel like i’m not enough
Thank you Heather, for your support. It is indeed a tough time for me right now, but after weeping a little after I wake up or before I go to bed, I believe by heart that this is the right decision for us. I had two more long term relationships before this one, and I know that even the two of those ...
- Fri Jul 20, 2018 12:28 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I feel like i’m not enough
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5429
Re: I feel like i’m not enough
Thank you for asking how i’m doing. I really needed someone to ask me that :( Well, of course I’m rather upset but I always thought I would also be mad; but no, I’m not mad at him, it’s pure sadness I guess. I know this is the right decision no matter how hard it seems to get over it. I know we both...
- Fri Jul 20, 2018 8:19 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I feel like i’m not enough
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5429
Re: I feel like i’m not enough
Hi again, I want to first thank you for helping me during this tough time. So, today I told him that I wanted to talk, so we did. He told me that it's been so hard on him dropping out of college and applying to another one while his friends are all finishing off their first year in college. He is qu...
- Wed Jul 18, 2018 2:15 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I feel like i’m not enough
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5429
Re: I feel like i’m not enough
I once loved him so much, we promised each other everyday that we’re going to marry eachother one day... it was a long distance relationship, and we were so happy. Then he dropped out of college and came back. I feel like his parents -especially his mom- do not approve of me, since not only she decl...
- Wed Jul 18, 2018 3:11 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I feel like i’m not enough
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5429
Re: I feel like i’m not enough
Hi again, Update here! So, as I told before, my boyfriend has been telling me that he is so stressed about getting accepted to his dream school (he dropped off college before, so this will be his second time) and that he is not emotionally stable these days... anyways, i told him that i will be ther...
- Sat Jul 07, 2018 12:33 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I feel like i’m not enough
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5429
I feel like i’m not enough
Hi, After feeling this way for months now, I am finally ready to share my feelings with someone else. I’m currently in a relationship with someone that I truly love and who mostly makes me feel like I’m being loved and respected, which is perfect I know. However, I’ve been feeling a bit weird lately...
- Mon May 21, 2018 11:24 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Hashimoto's Disease and periods
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1186
Hashimoto's Disease and periods
Hi, I have been diagnosed with Hashimoto's disease, aka subclinical hypothyroidism, in February 2018 and taking medicine since then. I've been tracking my periods for almost 2 years now and I can say that I don't have irregular periods even though I don't always start my period on the expected date ...
- Wed Oct 25, 2017 8:41 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Breast tenderness
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1430
Re: Breast tenderness
I took Ella last month due to condom failure, it was 2 weeks before my expected period. Then I got my period on the expected dates, which lasted 6 days as usual. I always have sore breasts approximately 10 days prior to my period, which I take as a sign of PMS. And this soreness goes away as I got m...
- Mon Oct 23, 2017 12:56 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Breast tenderness
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1430
Breast tenderness
Hi, Today I'm experiencing some breast pain, even though I am apx. 15 days away from getting my period (I have irregular cycles though), I didn't involve in any kind of sex after I got my last period, so I'm not pregnant. What could be the reason why my breasts are sore? Does ovulation have a sympto...
- Sun Oct 08, 2017 10:56 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Condom broke took Plan B
- Replies: 10
- Views: 3788
Re: Condom broke took Plan B
Hi again, I got my period on the day I expected it, now I am on the third day. However, my breasts are still quite sore and they hurt. I also did not have any kind of sex after the incident. The bleeding seems normal to me, yet I have no idea why my breasts are still sore even though I got my period...
- Thu Aug 25, 2016 10:44 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: did i become an addict?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1243
Re: did i become an addict?
Thanks for your reply. I miss him a lot. I also miss being intimate with him. He was like my best friend, my everything. I cared about him so much that it really hurts he no longer has a feeling for me. He was my first, this may be the reason why I feel like I can't be in a sexual relationship with ...
- Mon Aug 22, 2016 12:41 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: did i become an addict?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1243
did i become an addict?
Hi, My boyfriend of one and a half years and I broke up about two months ago. We started having intercourse two month before our breakup. He said that his feelings changed and he felt like he would be using me for sexual purposes if we did not break up. Anyway, one thing led to another and we starte...
- Sun Apr 24, 2016 1:49 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Relationship
- Replies: 4
- Views: 2681
Re: Relationship
I probably accidentally clicked on that option. Is there a way I could delete this thread?
- Sun Apr 24, 2016 12:38 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is this a condom failure?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 15302
Re: Is this a condom failure?
Alright, thank you for your answers. We will certainly be more careful next time
- Sun Apr 24, 2016 12:20 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is this a condom failure?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 15302
Re: Is this a condom failure?
Oh, he says he doesn't remember if he held the base of the condom during the withdrawal, however, he probably did because otherwise it would be entirely slipped off. What I understand from what you are telling me is that, it shouldn't be a problem unless the condom is entirely slipped of during the ...
- Sun Apr 24, 2016 11:16 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is this a condom failure?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 15302
Re: Is this a condom failure?
Thank you for the reply! I am not sure if it was just a little amount of slippage, it slipped like 3 or 4 cm, the tip of the penis was definitely inside the condom. And also, I don't remember if I mentioned, but it slipped right after the withdrawal, therefore, the bare part (the upper part of the p...
- Sun Apr 24, 2016 10:30 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is this a condom failure?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 15302
Is this a condom failure?
Hi everyone, So today my boyfriend and I were having an intercourse, he was wearing a condom all the time, there was no genital to genital contact at all without a condom. I frequently checked whether if the condom was slipping any time, during the intercourse, and it wasn't. We are backing up condo...
- Sat Jul 18, 2015 1:02 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: That's what I want but...
- Replies: 16
- Views: 3846
Re: That's what I want but...
Thank you for your reply, Edith! Yes, today I'm planning to talk about how I felt when he reacted like that and wanted me to accept that I was the one to blame. It was obviously not okay for him to make a pressure on me to apologize. This talk actually made me realize something that I didn't before,...
- Fri Jul 17, 2015 5:58 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: That's what I want but...
- Replies: 16
- Views: 3846
Re: That's what I want but...
Hi again, I just talked to my boyfriend about my decision on losing my virginity. We had a fight, and he said he doesn't trust me anymore because I "lied" to him about being ready to have sex. I tried to explain all of these, and apologized for making him feel that way. Did i do the right ...
- Fri Jul 17, 2015 3:34 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: That's what I want but...
- Replies: 16
- Views: 3846
Re: That's what I want but...
Thank you Mo! I will check it out.
- Fri Jul 17, 2015 3:13 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: That's what I want but...
- Replies: 16
- Views: 3846
Re: That's what I want but...
Well, actually I don't feel safe and supported. Because, I am so scared to do something "not okay" for them and be taken away from my current school. If they do so, my future would be like, ruined. They are so strict, they don't let me hang out with my friends that often, I can't even have...
- Fri Jul 17, 2015 3:02 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: That's what I want but...
- Replies: 16
- Views: 3846
Re: That's what I want but...
They don't trust me. I have lied to them a few times in the past, because they would never let me go to my boyfriend's house, even though I was not planning to do something "bad". What would I do? Sometimes, you want to spend some time alone with your boyfriend, and -especially my mom- the...