I have a family history of ovarian cancer. I don't have an appointment yet. I'm putting it off because I'm nervous. What freaks me out about someone sticking their finger up my butt??!! Um, I don't know what words to use to explain why that would make me nervous. Maybe other people aren't bothered b...

I've never had sex. My doctor suggested it for some other reason.

Supposedly the doctor inserts 2 fingers into your vag. I can't even do that to myself. The pain would be excruciating. Also, I had something done once where the doc inserted just one finger and it was REALLY uncomfortable. And the part about the gyno inserting a finger into your anus just completely...