What's wrong with me?

[Eago1999]

Hello, I've been SO STRESSED this whole month. So exactly 32 days ago I was in my period but I gave my boyfriend a handjob and I had his precum in my fingers. I went home, and I can't remember if I washed my hands or not, but I touched myself because I washed myself down there as usual. My period hasn't showed up. I took a pregnancy test 2 days ago. It was negative. I've been reading so much stuff about "you should wait till you're late, about 7 days later" and things that freak me out. I'm irregular, but my period should've been here already. I'm even starting to think my belly looks bloated. PLEASE HELP ME! For some reason I can't calm down, even though I've taken like 10 pregnancy tests since day 1.

[Sam W]

Hi Eago,

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