Question about condoms, dry sex and ectopic pregnancy.

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Question about condoms, dry sex and ectopic pregnancy.

Unread post by pastelpink_ »

hello.
my question about condoms is this : how long can sperm survive in them ? one morning i visited my boyfriend. he threw in the thrash an used condom from last night (with semen in it) and then fingered me. is there a pregnancy risk from this ? the condom was full with liquid semen, it was not dry. he washed his hands.

question about dry sex : can sperm pass through very wet clothes ? for example, if the girl is wearing bikinis and leggings and is very wet and the boy is naked, can sperm pass through the clothes ?

ectopic pregnancy : is it possible to experience period-like bleeding during one ? how is it detected ? i hear that while pregnancy tests can usually spot it, they are around 89 % effective, not the claimed 99%..

I am terrified that if I ever get pregnant I will not find out early enough to have an abortion..
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Re: Question about condoms, dry sex and ectopic pregnancy.

Unread post by Heather »

We no longer answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family


For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
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