Please help, I'm scared

[hvick17]

Okay, so, I don't usually get scared about things, but this time I feel like I need to worry. I wanted to ask a site that's actually reliable and not one of those sites that tell you ANYTHING under the sun can get you pregnant. So, here's my question. (sorry if it's too in detail.) Thursday, me and my boyfriend were fooling around. I had given him a bj and I gagged and semen got all over his bed and a little got on my shirt. I had on some nike pants and none was on it as I could tell, but if there was any I couldnt' see any. I know some got on my shirt. I've never done something so stupid. We try and restrain from activities that scare us. Like we don't have sex, but we just mess around. I'm paranoid that the cum (if any got on my pants could have seeped through and got me preggo. I'm also on the pill. I have been for 8 months now, and I have never skipped or missed a pill. I've always taken it directly on time. So, if something did get on my on my pants is there anything to worry about? I am in college and don't want to end up pregnant. I have a fear of that. So, that's why we aren't having sex yet. Please help me. I need some reassurance, because I don't want to freak over something that possibly couldn't happen. I have read on several sites that sperm can travel through clothing. I had on my nike pants and shirt. (no underwear on if that makes a difference.)

[Stephanie]

Hi there hvick17. Welcome to Scarleteen. I see you're new, so you probably are not aware we have a pregnancy question policy here:
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