I had protected receptive anal sex a few months ago, I don't think the condom broke (can you tell if it's broken or worn) but I'm not sure if we used lube that was safe for latex. I read that the chances of getting HIV from receptive anal sex are anywhere from 1.3%-3% and that condoms only reduce that risk by 80%, which freaked me out. Does that mean that even if it doesn't break there still a 20% chance that you can get HIV? I'm planning on getting tested, I would just appreciate it if there's any chance that I misunderstood the things I read to calm my anxiety. I got worried because I keep having reoccurring bouts of sore throat which is just adding to the anxiety. A lot of sources say that people get HIV exclusively from anal sex and that most people don't get it from PIV sex, and now I feel like I did something wrong.
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Thank you.