Anxious of pregnancy

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Anxious of pregnancy

Unread post by xiaociao »

Hi, so my bf and I were fooling around 2 months ago. And by fooling around he inserted in me but we didnt really do it. He just penetrated but that was all. No movement and stayed there for at least less than a minute. Im quite anxious and aware of pregnancy because we didnt have any sort of protection. He already peed after his last ejaculation.

I got my period a day early last month. It lasted the same days it normally does (7-8 days) but felt anxious still cause i had period cramps that were really bad than before, felt like vommiting one time during my period. And then after my period was over I felt gassy, burping and farting for no reason and a bit of nausea. So it made my anxiety worst. I felt light headed on some days and nausea. I went to my gp already and told her everything and she said she believes its my period and Im just anxious and stressed. Still anxious cause I read too much on the internet that some women get periods during pregnancy.

I got my period this month, one day late but normally it really does start on that day originally (8th of the month). I took a pregnancy test and both were negative (and i were pg Id be 9 weeks by now so hpt should be accurate). But i feel a bit of tingling on my breast and muscle spasms on my legs.

Is it possible to be pregnant despite all this or my anxiety is just that high...sorry for the long question
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Re: Anxious of pregnancy

Unread post by Carmen »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
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