So around 3 days ago me and my gf were fooling around and I went to go finish my self off in the washroom.(I used hand soap as a lube for my masturbation if that helps) I ejculated into the toilet and little of it got on my hand. I'm pretty sure I washed it off with water and pat dried it, but I read a website that said sperm can live without the semen for a while and get a girl pregnant. When I got back in like 5 mins I started fingering her and then I really got myself scared thinking I may have got her pregnant. I have terrible anxiety already and this just makes it worse. I know this may seem like a very dumb question, but is there any chance she is pregnant? Even worst case scenario were there was a tiny little amount on my hand?
Hi there,
[ You're correct that we will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.[/b]
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