fantasy confusion
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bikinksterboy
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fantasy confusion
how common is it that in my sexual fantasies, I don't think of a specific person or scenario but just on what my imagined lover and I are doing? like I don't often imagine names, dialogue, even a consistent partner always, all that usually comes to mind is just stuff relating to the sexual act itself. moreover, should I be concerned?
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Mo
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Re: fantasy confusion
It can be hard to pinpoint just how common or uncommon certain sexual thoughts or fantasies are, but focusing on specific sexual acts, with less of a focus on a particular person or scenario, isn't unusual or concerning in any way.
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