Complicated Guys and Sex

[maggie37081]

Hi my name is maggie, and i like this guy quite a lot and his name is cody and omg i really like him and we hang out a lot and i have liked him ever since September 6th which i know isn't a super long time but we started hanging around like October toward the end. I helped him through his 2 breakups that happened during that time and I literally love this kid i think. I poured my heart out to him kind of and I found out one of his exs likes him again actually she said "i love him so much" and i'm like you broke his heart and now he is saying he likes her like NOOO I'M RIGHT HERE IN FRONT OF YOU AND AM WAITING NOOOOO DON'T LEAVE ME, i did'nt say that but that's what i'm thinking. and i dont know what to do anymore cuz i don't want to lose him and its just hard. Plus he is kind of a fuck boy but he is super sweet and I want to do things with him and idk ughhh its so hard HELP!!!!!!!!!!

[Karyn]

Hi, maggie.

Really, the only way to let someone know how we feel - as awkward as it can feel to do! - is to tell them, and the only way to know how they feel is to ask them. Basically, if you're interested in pursuing a romantic and/or sexual relationship with this guy, there's no getting around having a conversation with him to see if he feels the same way.

Would it be helpful to brainstorm some ways to start that conversation?