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[animalcracker]

ok so my boyfriend and i were fooling around and he guided my hand toward his penis about 3 times during the encounter. I am unsure inf he got precum on his fingers. After each time he fingered me. I thought that there would be no chance of pregnancy however this incident occured on the 28th of october. My last period began on the 20th and finished on the 25th . I have a 31 day cycle. It is now november and I am late. my breasts are sore.. which is typical of me and my cervical mucus has dried up. There is nothing there. I am a university student and have also been under alot of exam stress. anxiety is giving me nausea as well as headaches. I think it is too early to test but am i pregnant

[Redskies]

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