What gives you pleasure?

Questions and discussions about your bodies and their parts.
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What gives you pleasure?

Unread post by Sam W »

We talk a lot about pleasure and sex, but there are plenty of non-sexual things that give you pleasure too. I wanted to celebrate those in this thread by sharing some of mine, and inviting y'all to share yours!

-Back being rubbed
-hair petting
-petting pretty much any animal
-eating chocolate, bread, cheese, ripe strawberries, or any combination of those foods
-washing my face
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Re: What gives you pleasure?

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ooh yes!

- snuggling up under thick blankets when it's cold outside
- warm showers
- the sun on my skin
- that bonfire sort of smell that lingers throughout october
- the sound of rain
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* massage/nonsexual touch in general, but especially on my scalp, hands, or feet
* a hot bath with some sort of good smelling oil or salts in it
* hugging a friend
* making a hot drink like tea or spiced cider when it's cold outside
* swimming or wading in the ocean on a hot day
* deep stretching at the end of the day
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Re: What gives you pleasure?

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The smell of cedarwood incense!
Playing the cello!
Potting soil between my fingers!
Shooting stars!
Strong coffee!
Quiet foggy days!
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Re: What gives you pleasure?

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1. Being with Family

2. Being with Friends

3. Being Naked
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Re: What gives you pleasure?

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*CUDDDLEEESSSSSS
*Hugs
*Dancing
*Certain Foods
*Being picked up/held by someone bigger (or in some cases, smaller. O_O)
*Tea, coffee or lattes
*Being petted, having hair played with or braided.
*rubs and hugs
That's all I can think of.
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Re: What gives you pleasure?

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>Raindrops on roses
>Whiskers on kittens
>Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens
>Brown paper packages tied up with strings... Just kidding

>When cats are friendly and will snuggle and let me pet them
>Riding escalators
>Warm sun on my skin
>Heat in general
>Staying in bed
>Soft flower petals
>The smell of rain on pavement
>Peeling off the sticky glue strips that are often on mailed advertisements
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Re: What gives you pleasure?

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I LOVE those sticky glue strips!! Peeling them off and watching them go TWANG like an elastic band is my favourite part of going through the mail
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Re: What gives you pleasure?

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Onionpie wrote:I LOVE those sticky glue strips!! Peeling them off and watching them go TWANG like an elastic band is my favourite part of going through the mail
I agree, it's strangely satisfying.
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Re: What gives you pleasure?

Unread post by light_frost »

-Popping bubble wrap
-Getting a scalp massage, or just having someone run their fingers through my hair
-The scent of fresh, damp earth right after rain
-When leaves turn red and gold during fall
-Hot chocolate in winter
-Taking a long walk in the woods fairly early in the mornings when the air is crisp
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