Risks of pregnancy - Plese help this anxious teen!!!
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Risks of pregnancy - Plese help this anxious teen!!!
hi there,
My girlfriend and I had sex exactly a week ago, and we used a condom. I did not ejaculate inside her, but when I took the condom off, I removed it inside out so the surface touching my penis was on the outside of the condom. I then proceeded to fill it with water to check that there wasn't any leaks or tears in it. I then emptied it once satisfied and wrapped it in a couple tissues. This part gets a little fuzzy, I can't remember if I washed my hands after handling the tissues. I was just wondering if I didn't wash my hands, and fingered my girlfriend afterwards, do I have reason to worry about precum being on my fingers when I fingered her in order to cause pregnancy?
My girlfriend and I had sex exactly a week ago, and we used a condom. I did not ejaculate inside her, but when I took the condom off, I removed it inside out so the surface touching my penis was on the outside of the condom. I then proceeded to fill it with water to check that there wasn't any leaks or tears in it. I then emptied it once satisfied and wrapped it in a couple tissues. This part gets a little fuzzy, I can't remember if I washed my hands after handling the tissues. I was just wondering if I didn't wash my hands, and fingered my girlfriend afterwards, do I have reason to worry about precum being on my fingers when I fingered her in order to cause pregnancy?
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Re: Risks of pregnancy - Plese help this anxious teen!!!
We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.
Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.
We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family
For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.
We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family
For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
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