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Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
So, I have interest in pet play, specifically kitten play, but I'm not sure about ideas with it. And I've been growing in interest for bondage where I have two choices, both of which may be uncomfortable.
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
With pet play, have you found any communities of people engaged in it who you could ask questions of?
When you say your bondage choices might be uncomfortable, can you tell me more about that?
When you say your bondage choices might be uncomfortable, can you tell me more about that?
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Pet play is something I've recently got into, so no.Sam W wrote:With pet play, have you found any communities of people engaged in it who you could ask questions of?
When you say your bondage choices might be uncomfortable, can you tell me more about that?
And, I mean, like bondage that might... let's say, squatting with like clamps or something on, I could stand up and avoid the strain in my muscles, but pull on the clamps. And vice versa.
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Okay, so my recommendation would be to see if you can find some information or communities on pet play that you can start getting advice from.
It seems like something that could help with bondage comfort might be cushions or similar to help make the positions more comfortable.
It seems like something that could help with bondage comfort might be cushions or similar to help make the positions more comfortable.
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Well, when I'm doing that kind of bondage, I usually don't have comfort in mind.Sam W wrote:Okay, so my recommendation would be to see if you can find some information or communities on pet play that you can start getting advice from.
It seems like something that could help with bondage comfort might be cushions or similar to help make the positions more comfortable.
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Fair enough, so long as you're taking precautions against injury, you should be set.
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Most likely, just muscle pulls might happen, except in cases where other hazards exist. (Like possibly a broken bone, sprain, ect. ect.)Sam W wrote:Fair enough, so long as you're taking precautions against injury, you should be set.
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
I've been looking into kitten play info, and I really want to get gear for it. I'm not really sure how, though.KittyPink wrote:Most likely, just muscle pulls might happen, except in cases where other hazards exist. (Like possibly a broken bone, sprain, ect. ect.)Sam W wrote:Fair enough, so long as you're taking precautions against injury, you should be set.
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Are the items things you could get at more general stores? Or are they specific to fetish or sex toy stores?
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Some I could possibly get at general stores (ears, collar, and maybe stuff to DIY the rest of the gear.)Sam W wrote:Are the items things you could get at more general stores? Or are they specific to fetish or sex toy stores?
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That would be the place to look, although you may want to come up with a plan ahead of time for ways to prevent your grandmother or mom from discovering them.
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Yeah, my best bet for hiding it would probably be out of sight.Sam W wrote:That would be the place to look, although you may want to come up with a plan ahead of time for ways to prevent your grandmother or mom from discovering them.
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
May I ask if anyone may know any good diy tutorials for things like these?KittyPink wrote:Yeah, my best bet for hiding it would probably be out of sight.Sam W wrote:That would be the place to look, although you may want to come up with a plan ahead of time for ways to prevent your grandmother or mom from discovering them.
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Which items are you thinking you'd make yourself?
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Maybe the collar, and ears. The tails are bit of a long shot. The collar would be more of a show collar I can wear in public rather than a functional collar.Sam W wrote:Which items are you thinking you'd make yourself?
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With the ears at least there might be some simple sewing/crafting patterns or tutorials online; a google search for something like "cat ear pattern" should turn up at least a few results.
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What about a collar tutorial?Karyn wrote:With the ears at least there might be some simple sewing/crafting patterns or tutorials online; a google search for something like "cat ear pattern" should turn up at least a few results.
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There's a decent chance that there would be a youtube tutorial to help you make that one (there are youtube tutorials on seemingly everything).
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Ah, okay. Thanks for the help!Sam W wrote:There's a decent chance that there would be a youtube tutorial to help you make that one (there are youtube tutorials on seemingly everything).
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Try googling "paracord dog collar". Obviously, you don't have to use paracord, you can use soft ropes if you prefer. But tutorials on paracord patterns are available everywhere. Since you're looking for show-y styles, this gives you the opportunity to experiment with different patterns, depending on how good you are in weaving. If you're looking for a collar that is more like a belt than using plastic buckles, google "paracord belts" instead. I'm sure you get the idea
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Thanks for the idea!TheConfusedOne wrote:Try googling "paracord dog collar". Obviously, you don't have to use paracord, you can use soft ropes if you prefer. But tutorials on paracord patterns are available everywhere. Since you're looking for show-y styles, this gives you the opportunity to experiment with different patterns, depending on how good you are in weaving. If you're looking for a collar that is more like a belt than using plastic buckles, google "paracord belts" instead. I'm sure you get the idea
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
Is it safe to use a dog or cat collar?KittyPink wrote:Thanks for the idea!TheConfusedOne wrote:Try googling "paracord dog collar". Obviously, you don't have to use paracord, you can use soft ropes if you prefer. But tutorials on paracord patterns are available everywhere. Since you're looking for show-y styles, this gives you the opportunity to experiment with different patterns, depending on how good you are in weaving. If you're looking for a collar that is more like a belt than using plastic buckles, google "paracord belts" instead. I'm sure you get the idea
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The issue there would likely be finding one that fit you comfortably. The benefit of something like confusedone described is that you could tailor it to fit your neck so that is was comfortable and safe to wear.
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Okay, well, considering I'm a small bean, finding one that fits wouldn't be too hard.Sam W wrote:The issue there would likely be finding one that fit you comfortably. The benefit of something like confusedone described is that you could tailor it to fit your neck so that is was comfortable and safe to wear.
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Re: Kitten/ Pet play, Predicament bondage.
for collars there are many options you could also use a choker many of those now-a-days have a bondagy feel and look as for a tail i am not sure if you would want to create a butt plug one but you could make a belt one just get some fur that matches your ears from the craft section and create a tail shape that you like then you could do an elastic ribbon or rope what every you are comfortable with as a belt (you night need some type of closure with other materials that are not elastic) other things you could do if you want is get some pleather from the craft store and get some metal rings that will be some wear near the purse making section and then get a charm and could create a BDSM style collar if you want
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