Hole?
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Hole?
So about four hours ago, me and my boyfriend had sex, we used a condom of course as this was only my second time doing this and we used a spermicide condom. It was great and all and he came and afterwards he took the condom off and I'm pretty sure there wasn't a hole but I didn't really look I guess but later after I got home I was uh helping myself since you know boys suck and I found like a little bit of white stuff in me and to wasnt thick like a yeast infection discard it was almost like lotion and I don't know what it if if maybe there was a hole and somehow cum got in me but I'm kinda scared as I really really don't wanna get pregnant
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Sam W
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Re: Hole?
We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.
Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.
We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
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You mentioned some concerns about how condoms tear, as well as some feelings about your partner that warrant further discussion. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=6970
For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
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Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.
We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family
You mentioned some concerns about how condoms tear, as well as some feelings about your partner that warrant further discussion. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=6970
For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
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