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Re: hey
Hi rajaman!
We don't give advice on masturbation technique. Primarily this is because it isn't possible to tell anyone what will feel good for them. Everyone is so very different. What's pleasurable is more about your imagination, and exploring what feels good for you, than the 'strength' of your orgasm/ejaculating.
I'll also add that if you have been watching porn, as you mentioned in your other thread, you may have seen porn performers who could have significantly bigger volumes of semen than average, or more dramatic ejaculations, these are just biological differences... not to mention the camera tricks that are used to exaggerate things.
If you are taking that as your guide, remember that it's usually not realistic. Your sexuality might develop in very different ways to what you are seeing represented and that is common and it's also totally ok!
We don't give advice on masturbation technique. Primarily this is because it isn't possible to tell anyone what will feel good for them. Everyone is so very different. What's pleasurable is more about your imagination, and exploring what feels good for you, than the 'strength' of your orgasm/ejaculating.
I'll also add that if you have been watching porn, as you mentioned in your other thread, you may have seen porn performers who could have significantly bigger volumes of semen than average, or more dramatic ejaculations, these are just biological differences... not to mention the camera tricks that are used to exaggerate things.
If you are taking that as your guide, remember that it's usually not realistic. Your sexuality might develop in very different ways to what you are seeing represented and that is common and it's also totally ok!
"In between two tall mountains there's a place they call lonesome.
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You