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nikkibaker
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Unread post by nikkibaker »

so me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now and we just started having sex well i have noticed that i bleed after everytime and i hurt in one spot i feel like i tare when me and him have sex is it normal to bleed a little after every time of having sex??? :?: :?: :?:
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Unread post by Heather »

It's common, but only usually because a lot of people make a lot of the same mistakes.

The good news is, you can usually correct it easy AND doing so usually makes sex feel a lot better besides.

So, let me check in:
• Are you using plenty of lubricant?
• Adding more as needed?
• Only having intercourse when you are already very turned on?
• Have done things first that are sexual and exciting for you and get more more turned on?
• Is your partner asking you how things feel best?
• When things hurt, are you telling him to stop and then stopping?
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead
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nikkibaker
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Unread post by nikkibaker »

thank you this will probable help me alot
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