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[Lola2018]

So I was on my fertile window this Saturday (in two weeks i should have my period). I’ve read all your safe sex tips and I have taken them very seriously.
But I did something that I haven’t found in your guidelines an I just want to make sure I didn’t do something stupid.
There was no penis near vagina. I gave him oral sex and swallowed his semen. Then he fingered me, way deep. I think he might have touched himself before fingering me.. like to put his penis back in his pants, we even kinda hold hands for a second. But I can’t remember it was late and dark.
I think that can’t get me pregnant.. but I want to be sure. I don’t think plan B is necessary in this case.. do you? I just don’t want to deal with the side effects. Also I don’t want to have a baby.
We haven’t had vaginal sex yet because we don’t want to have any pregnancy risks. We have already tested negative for stds.

[Sam W]

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• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
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