Ejaculation

[bestgoals]

So I'm a vulva-owner, and when I orgasm, I usually ejaculate. Like a lot. There's so much fluid that it soaks through LAYERS of towels. The only solution I've thought of is to masturbate in the shower/bath, but in my current living situation, that's not an option. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to contain the fluid/find a way to not have it soak everything? Thanks!

[Heather]

This can be a toughie, for sure, especially if you don't have easy or cheap access to laundry.

Besides just sucking it up and using a bunch of towels you wash each time, you might look into getting a thing often called a postpartum or menstrual pad or blanket: it's generally a very absorbent washable pad, wider than your body, meant for having on a bed. Its bottom layer is generally a waterproof one of some kind so the fluid doesn't make it to your bed. They're pretty handy for a lot of things (ejaculation, sleeping without a pad during periods, etc.). You still have to wash that each time, but then it's only one thing, and you can get a couple if you like.

I have a couple from Lunapads, but they don't seem to have them anymore. But similar things are available from a bunch of places online, and they're not expensive (US $25 or less, usually). In the event you sew, it would be a super easy project (basically just a few layers of flannel sewn on top of some kind of ripstop nylon or other waterproof fabric).

[bestgoals]

Thank you!!!

[Heather]

Happy to be of service. Anything else I can help you with right now?

[bestgoals]

Nope, that helps heaps!!

[Heather]

Awesome. Good luck, and here's to (hopefully) less laundry!