while taking a shower after P.E class in the locker room... it is really embarrassing
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I keep on getting boners - in the locker room
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Tommy, Tommy
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I keep on getting boners - in the locker room
Well, school has started. I have gym class, after gym class, we take showers... I keep on getting boners.. during the Shower...
while taking a shower after P.E class in the locker room... it is really embarrassing advice
while taking a shower after P.E class in the locker room... it is really embarrassing
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Sam W
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Re: I keep on getting boners - in the locker room
Hi Tommy,
I'm sorry this situation is feeling so awkward for you. If it helps, you're far from the first person with a penis to experience this situation (and you're probably not the only person in that locker room dealing with this issue from time to time). When you're younger, you often get erections for no obvious reason, or from stimulation that's not even remotely sexual. Your best bet is probably to ignore it when it happens, which will help it go away. Does that all help?
I'm sorry this situation is feeling so awkward for you. If it helps, you're far from the first person with a penis to experience this situation (and you're probably not the only person in that locker room dealing with this issue from time to time). When you're younger, you often get erections for no obvious reason, or from stimulation that's not even remotely sexual. Your best bet is probably to ignore it when it happens, which will help it go away. Does that all help?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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Re: I keep on getting boners - in the locker room
You might try giving yourself a shot of cold water when it happens. Seriously, I'd be surprised if this doesn't help. Good luck !
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Tommy, Tommy
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Re: I keep on getting boners - in the locker room
That does help, thanks!Sam W wrote:Hi Tommy,
I'm sorry this situation is feeling so awkward for you. If it helps, you're far from the first person with a penis to experience this situation (and you're probably not the only person in that locker room dealing with this issue from time to time). When you're younger, you often get erections for no obvious reason, or from stimulation that's not even remotely sexual. Your best bet is probably to ignore it when it happens, which will help it go away. Does that all help?
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Sam W
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Re: I keep on getting boners - in the locker room
You're welcome!
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.