Revenge
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This area of the boards is expressly for support and help for those who are currently in or have survived abuse or assault. It is also for those seeking information or discussion about abuse or assault. Please make every effort in this space to be supportive and sensitive. Posts in this area may or do describe abuse or assault explicitly.
This area of the boards is also not an area where those who are themselves abusing anyone or who have abused or assaulted someone may post about doing that or seek support. We are not qualified to provide that kind of help, and that also would make a space like this feel profoundly unsafe for those who are being or who have been abused. If you have both been abused and are abusing, we can only discuss harm done to you: we cannot discuss you yourself doing harm to others. If you are someone engaging in abuse who would like help, you can start by seeking out a mental healthcare provider.
This area of the boards is expressly for support and help for those who are currently in or have survived abuse or assault. It is also for those seeking information or discussion about abuse or assault. Please make every effort in this space to be supportive and sensitive. Posts in this area may or do describe abuse or assault explicitly.
This area of the boards is also not an area where those who are themselves abusing anyone or who have abused or assaulted someone may post about doing that or seek support. We are not qualified to provide that kind of help, and that also would make a space like this feel profoundly unsafe for those who are being or who have been abused. If you have both been abused and are abusing, we can only discuss harm done to you: we cannot discuss you yourself doing harm to others. If you are someone engaging in abuse who would like help, you can start by seeking out a mental healthcare provider.
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PrettyUgly
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Revenge
About a month ago, I was sexually aSaulted by a super homophobic guy that goes to my school. It’s completely destroyed my life, and he seems completely fine. I want to see him suffer like I did. Would anyone mind texting him [text removed]
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Heather
- scarleteen founder & director
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Re: Revenge
Hey there, PrettyUgly. I saw this come in last night when I was off work, and I moved it somewhere hidden until I could remove the text I edited out, which included an ask for harassment, something that is both not within the user agreement for any of our services, and which I also would not suggest is a good way to go, period.
It seems pretty obvious from what you asked that you're really struggling right now. I'm so sorry. I know it can seem like trying to make the other person burt will help, but even if you do accomplish that, it probably won't do anything to make you struggle less. It's not something at all likely to help you heal.
Do you want to talk some more about what can help? Would you like some help finding some additional resources besides the boards or our services that can help, like in-person sexual assault victim's advocacy and support? I'd be glad to help you with any of these things, and also glad to talk more about the way you're feeling.
It seems pretty obvious from what you asked that you're really struggling right now. I'm so sorry. I know it can seem like trying to make the other person burt will help, but even if you do accomplish that, it probably won't do anything to make you struggle less. It's not something at all likely to help you heal.
Do you want to talk some more about what can help? Would you like some help finding some additional resources besides the boards or our services that can help, like in-person sexual assault victim's advocacy and support? I'd be glad to help you with any of these things, and also glad to talk more about the way you're feeling.
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