Crushing
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Mister Aido
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Crushing
There is a girl In a few of my classes and I have a crush on her but I don't want to tell her because I don't want her to be freaked out by me and not want to be my friend anymore. I don't know what to do about it. I think I'm in love with her. I need gelp
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Sam W
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Re: Crushing
Hi Mister Aido,
Deciding what to do about your crush can be tricky, and it depends a lot on whether you want to risk telling her (which could have a lot of different results) or you want to try riding those feelings out and hoping they'll go away. Of those options, is there one that immediately jumps out at you as the one you prefer? Or do you feel sort of stuck between those choices?
If you haven't already read it, this article might also be really helpful right now: Puppy Love: The Do's & Don'ts of Crushes (With Help from a Very Small Dog)
Deciding what to do about your crush can be tricky, and it depends a lot on whether you want to risk telling her (which could have a lot of different results) or you want to try riding those feelings out and hoping they'll go away. Of those options, is there one that immediately jumps out at you as the one you prefer? Or do you feel sort of stuck between those choices?
If you haven't already read it, this article might also be really helpful right now: Puppy Love: The Do's & Don'ts of Crushes (With Help from a Very Small Dog)
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