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Masturbation worries

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Hi so im a 15 year old girl and i think im addicted to madtrubation. Not fingering cause that hurts but whatever. But just rubbing my clit. I think im really addicted and i don’t knowwhat to do about it. My clit hurts but i still do it. My orgasms are also less good. Sorry if my english is bad.
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Re: Masturbation worries

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Hi anonymous598,

Can you tell me a little more about why you think you may be addicted to masturbation?

You may also want to check out this article, which explains why talking about sex (or masturbation) in terms of addiction isn't the most accurate portrayal: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advic ... ted_to_sex
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Re: Masturbation worries

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Because i do it so much that as i said before my clit hurts and I feel less good when i orgasm. I hd holidays this week and i think i mastrubates 5 times a day. Isn’t that a bit much ? Thank you so much for helping
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Re: Masturbation worries

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By all means, if you’re hurting yourself with the frequency or spending so much time and focus on it you’re not doing other things you need or want to do, then yep - you probably want to pull back.

How about giving yourself a limit for now (maybe to twice a day?), and see how that feels for you?
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