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Is this possible? Please help

Unread post by Liam101 »

Hey i could really use some help on my situation im new to any type of sexual activity me and my girlfriend have been masturbating eachother for about a month now.... But last time we done it i finished and cleaned myself with toilet tissue... But didnt actually wash my hands i did wipe my hands of the tissue and after wiped it along my bottoms to make it dryer even tho it already was... But then proceeded to masturbate her with the same hand that i cleaned myself with.... But i do remember it being dry dry from wiping it of into the toilet tissue and then bottoms but still my anxiety is killing me with worry that even when ive wiped my hand she could get pregnant.. any help would be great thanks..
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Re: Is this possible? Please help

Unread post by Heather »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen -- including information that tells you how pregnancy can and cannot happen -- click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
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