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What to masturbate with

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I'm 14 years old and the only "me time" I get is at night when I'm in bed. I don't know what to masturbate with or what to use as a lube so I guess what I'm asking is if you can help me come up with ideas of household things that I could use.
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Re: What to masturbate with

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Hi username, Welcome to Scarleteen!

We have an article about that very topic. Take a look here: D.I.Y. Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition

Do any parts of that article help?
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Re: What to masturbate with

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Jacob wrote:Hi username, Welcome to Scarleteen!

We have an article about that very topic. Take a look here: D.I.Y. Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition

Do any parts of that article help?
I'm not looking for sex toys, but I think masturbating with lube instead of my dry hand would be better.
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Sorry for the misunderstanding!

The best lubes are generally things sold specifically as sexual lubricants. But if those are out of reach for you, and you have a penis, you still have a lot of options. Oils like olive or vegetable or coconut work, but some people use things like hand or body lotion instead (just make sure not to use any that have things like acids in them for exfoliation -- not a feel-good thing on genital tissue). Generally, what you can find that both works and has the least amount of weird stuff in it is the way to go.
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Re: What to masturbate with

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Heather wrote:Sorry for the misunderstanding!

The best lubes are generally things sold specifically as sexual lubricants. But if those are out of reach for you, and you have a penis, you still have a lot of options. Oils like olive or vegetable or coconut work, but some people use things like hand or body lotion instead (just make sure not to use any that have things like acids in them for exfoliation -- not a feel-good thing on genital tissue). Generally, what you can find that both works and has the least amount of weird stuff in it is the way to go.
Thanks! and yes btw I am a boy and things sold for sexual uses are definitely out of my reach :?
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Not all boys have a penis, so we try not to assume! :)
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Re: What to masturbate with

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Heather wrote:Not all boys have a penis, so we try not to assume! :)
A little late of a response, I know, but I'm not familiar with genders and I didn't even know that was a thing lol so no problem.
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