Precum’s journey through clothes

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Precum’s journey through clothes

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Hello there. Firstly, I want to thank you for an awesome job you guys have been doing. I understand this question has been asked several times in the old threads, but somehow I am not able to view it as it gives me an error page when I try to look at those threads. Any idea how I can refer to those archive boards?

Anyway, my main question is regarding precum’s journey through clothing. I understand that the site mentions that dry frottage and dry sex carries no pregnancy risk as long as at least one partner wears clothes that covers their genitals (not a g-string, that I understand). But what is the definition of clothes here? Does it also include only one partner wearing spandex /nylon kind of thin material underwear (not cotton) without shorts and the other naked? Of course during dry sex, there would bodily fluids produced, if precum from the penis touches on the outer side of the underwear of the female, Is pregnancy still not possible due to underwear barrier no matter how thin?

I am asking not because of a pregnancy risk/scare but because I am preparing to be sexually actively and I want to know what to do to keep myself safe yet have pleasure in the activities.

Thanks
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Re: Precum’s journey through clothes

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When we say clothes we mean exactly that - literally any clothes that cover the genitals.
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Re: Precum’s journey through clothes

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Hi Sian, thank you for responding. Are you able to explain further why? I don’t understand fully. Rather than telling me that there is no pregnancy risk, I would prefer if there is a scientific fact so that I can understand better. Thank you.
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Re: Precum’s journey through clothes

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Have you used the site to read any of the pieces we have that explain that?

If not, we've got a pair right here that give you all the facts it sounds like you're asking for:
Who's Afraid of Sperm Cells?
Human Reproduction: A Seafarer's Guide
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