Long Distance Relationship :(

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straightlygay
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Long Distance Relationship :(

Unread post by straightlygay »

Hi!
I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now, and recently (the last month or so) she has moved 500ish miles away,
we were sexually active and everything was great, but when she moved the "sexual energy" has been pent up so i decided to masterbate to feel a release,
i had done it before and climaxed but now i dont feel anything, and i feel like i cant get that release without her!
thoughts? what can i do?
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Re: Long Distance Relationship :(

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi straightlygay,

Ooof, the switch to a long-distance relationship can be really tough on so many levels.

When you say this last time you tried masturbating you didn't feel anything, do you mean you literally felt no pleasure or enjoyment during it, or that it felt kind of "meh?" Or is it more that it didn't feel as good or satisfying as sex with her does?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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