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Diy Men's Masturbators

Questions and discussion about your sexual lives, choices, activities, ideas and experiences.
idk anymore
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Diy Men's Masturbators

Unread post by idk anymore »

Hi, I'm a dude, and I hear alot about how fleshlights and stuff are way better than your hand. Is there anyway I could make something like that, to improve the quality of my solo sessions?
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Re: Diy Men's Masturbators

Unread post by Heather »

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idk anymore
not a newbie
Posts: 97
Joined: Tue Dec 15, 2020 7:22 am
Age: 19
Awesomeness Quotient: I have a pretty good sense of humor
Primary language: English
Pronouns: He/Him
Sexual identity: Pan, mostly
Location: Epping, NH

Re: Diy Men's Masturbators

Unread post by idk anymore »

Thank you, but I did already read that one. i tried doing that and the latex was to grippy, and the sponge hurt. What do I do?
I hate the word homophobia. It's not a phobia. You're not scared. You're an asshole.

~Morgan Freeman
Mo
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Re: Diy Men's Masturbators

Unread post by Mo »

Were you using a lubricant as well? Using lube (or more, if you only used a little) should cut down on the grippy feeling.
idk anymore
not a newbie
Posts: 97
Joined: Tue Dec 15, 2020 7:22 am
Age: 19
Awesomeness Quotient: I have a pretty good sense of humor
Primary language: English
Pronouns: He/Him
Sexual identity: Pan, mostly
Location: Epping, NH

Re: Diy Men's Masturbators

Unread post by idk anymore »

I was using the closest thing I have to lube. i.e. this extremely slilppery organic body lotion. Is that okay to use? Will that work just as well? If not, any ideas what else I can use that A. Won't make a huge mess and B. I can manage to get from where it's stored to the bathroom somewhat discreetly.
I hate the word homophobia. It's not a phobia. You're not scared. You're an asshole.

~Morgan Freeman
Mo
previous staff/volunteer
Posts: 2287
Joined: Thu Jul 31, 2014 2:57 pm
Awesomeness Quotient: I'm always wearing seriously fancy nail polish.
Primary language: English
Pronouns: he/him, they/them
Sexual identity: queer/bisexual

Re: Diy Men's Masturbators

Unread post by Mo »

As long as it is unmedicated and unscented, a lotion should be safe to use.
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